22 Days

being locked in my chastity device and not allowed to cum in 21 days was the longest time for me ever.... 

Mistress arrived at the house on Friday with me in my expected High Protocol position, kneeling on the hard wood floor, nude, and locked.  She knows that i am still locked as we use plastic locks with serial numbers.  The last time i had been allowed a full release was Friday night Dec 31st at 11:57pm...just before the ball dropped in Times Square.  So naturally i was very much hoping that i might see some relief as it had been another entire week of locked chastity.  As you can read on Mistress Asia's blog..i did in fact get taken out after an entire evening of tease and denial but then after pleasuring Mistress was relocked with no orgasm.

Saturday and still locked, now well into day 22 and seriously wondering if once again I would be denied...We met up again with our friends...(a Femdom couple) for another very nice dinner together. Both of us men locked and both Women enjoying their power over us. As we had conversation over dinner it made me realize that i will be locked now most of the time. 

We got home and Mistress again enjoyed using me including some strap on play that we had not done in several months. Mistress is very creative and also had me wear the strap on for Her enjoyment while i was still locked.   Just as i was about to accept that i would stay in, Mistress unlocked me and...well She describes in Her blog the rest of the story...

I made it 22 days and was rewarded with an unbelievably explosive orgasm!

Since then i had to travel and was allowed to stay out until my return today. As soon as i got home Mistress called and instructed me to put the device back on, use a new numbered lock and send Her a clear picture.

Locked again for my Keyholder and Mistress.  

Saturday Night Live - weekend update!

as you may have read on Mistress Asia's blog....the Mistress's had a very entertaining evening tormenting and teasing their slaves!   After meeting for dinner with our FemDom Lifestyle friends at an upscale Indian restaurant, we headed back to our house for a little play time. Mistress Asia had suggested we try out some Shibari rope practice and in no time us boys were taken down to  g-strings only and of course our locked cb6000 devices.  Mistress put my collar on me and instructed me to get the ropes and toy bag.  Not much later both of us slaves are fully secured in an elaborate Shibari full body tie with "bamboo skewer" nipple clamps. She also used a long pole to bind my arms. After some teasing next we were tied into the crab position, followed later with Mistress Asia putting me into a very secure hog tie. (see pic) i kind of thought i might get off easy until She pulled out a bag of clothespins which found their way between each of my toes and then the undersides of my arms and a few other painful locations...( She is a true Sadist!) of course then the cameras came out...and You know the rest of the story!

After our friends left. i was instructed to go upstairs to the bedroom. Then bent over the bed, Mistress decided i needed some cane and the paddle, the "taws" and a bit of the newest toy, a delrin multi stick punishment cane that i really hate!... well i hadn't had much corporal the past couple of weeks so in no time She had me doing the bed crawl and twisting.  Mistress Asia will have none of that though and quickly held me down for a thorough caning. Now with a red hot bottom, i was brought down to my kneeling position and  began my worship between Her legs until She was brought to an intense orgasm.  of course i am very excited and still locked for over 15 days..in bed feeling Her....hoping and anticipating Her touch...and my hopeful release from the tight device...my tired and satisfied Mistress teased my nipples, pulled me close, kissed me and whispered...good night my love...

Sunday morning i was kept nude and in leather cuffs and bondage for several hours ( you can see the pic on her blog).  Mistress enjoys her coffee with me serving Her while in limited and very restricted bondage.  another day in chastity...more teasing, and told that it would be longer...at least another week.   In our relationship i never know when...or if i come out and then even for how long.  This is new ground for us...with work schedules now She won't see me again until Friday night..so it will be 21 days by then.   i crave Her so badly right now!  

anticipation

Saturday afternoon and i am anxiously waiting to see Mistress this evening.  She is working today and then will be coming over to the house for the weekend  So i am busy doing laundry, changing the sheets, cleaning the kitchen, doing the dishes, and making sure the house is spotless and to Mistress's strict expectations.   Tonight after She arrives, we will be going out to meet up with another couple for dinner, good friends of ours who are also living a FemDom lifestyle. After dinner we all may end up back here as Mistress would like to try some Shibari rope play.  I have been told to make sure all the toys are ready including Her rope collection.  

i am feeling especially submissive the last several days...it has been just over 2 weeks now since i was allowed an orgasm on New years Eve. The following day i was locked back into our CB6000s and with just a few hours out for the airport trip...i have been locked in without any time out.  Last weekend, while we were together, Mistress decided that i should stay locked all weekend and remain locked all week.  This is about the longest i have ever gone since we began practicing locked chastity.  i know and understand now that i will need to adjust to it and accept that this is the way it will be with Mistress Asia.  i understand now why so many FemDom's use locked chastity.....it really does keep you focused and wanting to please Mistress.

new to Blogging...

our first week blogging....Mistress had me set up my blog site to compliment Hers. The last couple of days have had me busy learning all about building a blog site, installing gadgets and setting up the page.  Now its time to actually Blog!

One of the gadgets is a "count -up" timer which She had me set to indicate how long i have been in locked Chastity.  well...tonight in a few hours it will be 13 days.  I last had an orgasm just before the ball dropped on New Years Eve.  I have been out of my CB6000s device just once since, when I went to the airport.  However my flight was cancelled and i went home only a few hours later. On the way out of the airport i spoke with Mistress who told me that the device would go right back on the minute i got home.  We use numbered plastic locks most of the time now so as soon as i was back in, i had to take a pic with my cell phone and send it to Her.  The pic has to be close enough to clearly show the number...which will certainly be checked when we see each other this weekend. Last year we would use a Master Lock (or "Mistress Lock"!) which has 2 keys.  One She keeps on Her keychain, the other is kept in my house in a lockbox that uses a 5 digit combination.  If we had an emergency, She could give me the number to get out if She was not available.  This works well to for those of you who live apart.  

The numbered locks work well and are especially good when i travel and need to relock in between flights.  We are still experimenting but since right now we live about an hour and half away and have commitments that keep us apart midweek we choose to use this approach.   

I do feel myself feeling much more submissive and wanting to serve and please Her when i have been locked for several days.  It has been a process to build up to longer periods of time in Chastity, but i do see that Mistress is growing even more interested in having us live a deeply committed and focused D/s FemDom life together. Now as of January 1, She has expressed to me that Locked Chastity is expected and will be enforced all of the time instead of "some" of the time. Last year was my opportunity to adapt and learn how to comfortably wear the device.  This year my training progresses...and Her expectations grow to higher and more meaningful levels.

Blogging and reading others describe their experiences living in a D/s Female led relationship has also contributed to both of us wanting to go further and deepen our lifestyle together too.  For me..i now see that other couples do live this way and it has helped me accept my own desires and open up to my Mistress. 

Intro

Hello all.... i am the owned slave,pet and future husband of the lovely and sexy Mistress Asia.  We are in a committed long term relationship that began in 2008.  Over the past two years, my Loving Keyholder and I have developed our ever deepening FemDom couple relationship. 

I love Her very much and accept Her Dominance over me at all times.  We have an exciting vanilla life too and love to do many things together.  I find myself learning every month from her, understanding how to please Her every need and worship Her in every way possible.  She controls many aspects of my life now including my sex using a CB6000s Chastity device. About a year ago She introduced me to locked Chastity. We began slow, a few days at a time, then slowly progressed with occasional periods lasting up to a week at time. 

More recently, Mistress has determined that I will be locked at all times and for longer periods.  She is taking me to a much higher level of submission and expects my submission to Her to include complete obedience and dedication to Her.  I will now be locked every day and only taken out for special circumstances like Doctor appointments or passing through TSA security when traveling.

We have rules and rituals for many things including my morning responsibilities which include preparing Her coffee and warming Her towel, the positions I am expected to be in, how we interact in public, and many aspects of our FemDom life including Her use of me sexually in any way She wishes.  When we are not together, I am required to text Her the minute I wake up, keep Her informed of my activities and schedule, what I will be eating, whether I am allowed a drink, and promptly calling Her at my assigned times. When She arrives at home, I am expected to be nude, kneeling, locked, with clothes neatly folded next to me and collar in hand.

I am very excited about our deepening loving relationship and the FemDom journey we are taking together. Now with the blogs we are writing about our experiences, we can share our lifestyle with others.